Why Choose Adoption?
Published on Nov. 8, 2023 by Deborah Saka
Behind the seemingly simple question "Why Adopt?" lies a world of emotions, hope, and transformative power. When adoptive parents and families are asked this profound question, they embark on a journey filled with unwavering emotions and words that depict a unique and beautiful experience. From the momentous call that changes lives to the indescribable joy of being called "Mummy" or "Daddy," the adoption narrative weaves a story that resonates deep within the soul.
The desire to adopt should be rooted in genuine motives and a clear understanding of the responsibilities involved. Adoption is a healing process for children who may have experienced trauma, such as abuse, neglect, or abandonment. The best adoptive families help these children transition to a new life.
While it may seem idealistic to ask, "Why Adoption?" it's important to acknowledge that not all adoption experiences have been positive. In some cases, adoption has led to unfortunate family dissolutions.
Adoptive families embark on a journey that demands time and emotional energy as they welcome new family members into their lives. They must be prepared for the inevitable ups and downs of adoptive parenting and equipped to navigate the unique challenges that may arise. It's crucial for families to approach adoption with open hearts and minds, welcoming children for who they are, with all their imperfections. Understanding that these children carry their own history and heritage, adoptive families must respect and embrace their backgrounds, creating an environment of love, understanding, and cultural appreciation.
Witnessing the overwhelming emotions in the Adoption Finalization hearing is a true delight. The smiles, tears, and overwhelming happiness on the faces of the adoptive parents are a testament to the journey they have undertaken and the love they have embraced. In Ghana, where 'Open or semi-open adoptions' is not the norm, the joy radiates not only from the adoptive parents but also from the social workers involved.
Adoption provides a stable family life for children who, for various reasons, cannot live with their biological families. Children are placed with families that have planned, prepared, and yearned for a child.
These families typically undergo counseling and training, and they often complete a 'Home Study Process' to ensure their readiness to provide a stable and loving home. Adoption also fulfills the dreams of prospective parents who may not have been able to become parents otherwise. It bestows better health and improved educational outcomes upon adopted children. The most significant consideration in any adoption is the best interests of the child.
Here are five common reasons families choose to adopt:
- Infertility: Couples who struggle to conceive naturally often turn to adoption after unsuccessful attempts, including medical interventions like In Vitro Fertilization (IVF).
- Medical Conditions: Some women may have conditions that make pregnancy unsafe, such as uterine abnormalities or prior complications.
- Avoiding Genetic Disorders: Couples with hereditary conditions opt for adoption to prevent the risk of passing on genetic disorders.
- Single Parents: Single women who desire to raise children often choose adoption.
- Growing Existing Families: Families with biological children sometimes choose to adopt to expand their families.